Wednesday, February 26, 2014

If I had a Million Dollars....

Whitney (a.k.a. Kitter's Mama, Grown Up Baby Child)
 
Have you ever had one of those moments where, if you had a million dollars, you would have given every single dime of it to get to somewhere? I've had a few. One of them was when my youngest daughter, Whitney, was about 8 years old and had an asthmatic bronchitis attack. AND, I was 3 states away. At times like these, Whitney needed breathing treatments to help her breathe.

Cliff and I were on our way to Mississippi for a wedding. The girls were staying with mama and daddy. Mama phoned to let me know that Whitney was starting to get sick. She needed her breathing machine and it was locked up in my house. AND, she had no key. Well, bless daddy and my sister, Carla's heart. They broke into my house to get the machine for Whitney. Mama promised me that she would get up around the clock to give her a breathing treatment. But, Lord, I felt so guilty and I wanted to be home in the worst kind of way. I couldn't just turn around and drive 36 hours back home. Whatever was going to happen, would have happened by then. BUT, if I had had a million dollars....I would have given every dime of it for someone to fly me home. Long story short, mama was diligent with Whitney's treatments and she was okay.

Now, nearly 20 years later and 1488 miles away.....if I had a million dollars I would have given every dime of it for someone to fly me to Colorado.

BUT, it wouldn't have done any good.

I only found out one hour before she was to go into surgery that my grownup baby child had to have her appendix removed. Thank God for Jason. He took very good care of her and was updating us constantly. It seems her appendectomy was textbook. She came home from the hospital yesterday. She is sore for sure. She sent me a text this morning saying, "I need one of those handles that are attached to the ceiling to peel myself out of this tempurpedic mattress topper."

Bless it!

She's on the mend. Whitney will be out of work a couple of days, but the biggest inconvenience to her is that she will not be able to exercise for 4 to 5 weeks.

Bless it!

Get well soon Whitney!

Love,
Mama (a.k.a. Ma, LaLa, Laurie or the parental unit)

16 comments:

  1. FEEL BETTER, Whitney - how scary, as a Mom, for sure. Glad to hear she is in good hands and healing well...I'm sure your nerves will probably need a few days, as well! Happy Wednesday - Tanya

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    1. Thanks Tanya! Scary yes, especially when you can't be there.

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  2. It is horrible when we feel helpless.

    I am glad Whitney is okay.

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  3. oh my, I was starting to worry about Whitney as I was reading, glad it was only her appendix and that she's ok!

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    1. Thank you Cindy! Good to hear from you. Hope all is well in your neck of the woods.

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  4. Oh- Yes- Those million dollar moments! The "if only"...times of our lives. Thanks for leaving me a comment on my blog. Did you know that you are a NO Reply blogger? That means that when you leave someone a comment they cannot reply directly to you-and many of us like to do that. It really helps you connect to other bloggers and will help you grow your blog. It is a simple setting to click and change. I don't like to mention it to bloggers but I thought that maybe you aren't aware of it. If you want to fix it -here is the link that gives instructions.
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    1. Thank you Diana! I have been told I was a no reply blogger before, but never knew what to do about it. I followed the instructions you sent me and hopefully I have corrected the problem. Thanks again. And I do enjoy your blog!

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  5. Ah...so glad she is okay...With a Mama like you...she will be on the mend fast. Your love will heal her quickly! xoxo Jen

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    1. Ahh, thank you Jen! Hope you're having a great day.

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  6. It is so difficult to be far away from loved ones and feel so helpless to not be able to get there. Sometimes I wish Star Trek was real and Scotty could beam me up. Thank goodness everything turned out okay!

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  7. Poor Whitney! I'm so glad she had a good support system. xo

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  8. I can understand your feelings about being so far away from your child when she is going through sickness, surgery - any difficult time for that matter. I'm glad that she is doing well, and I hope you can see her very soon.

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  9. The mommy instinct kicks in hard doesn't it. Best wishes to you and your daughter.

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  10. It doesn't matter how old our babies are...they will always be just that...our babies! I'm glad she's OK and the surgery went well. Speedy recovery!

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  11. Glad to hear all is well, ... but I can certainly relate to your situation.

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