Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Nothing on my calendar.....Except rejuvenation

Just sharing a bit of fall from SC.
Cotton fields, like this one just down the road from my house,
will pretty soon, will be a sea of white.

I made a statement many, many years ago that has haunted me to this day. No one probably even remembers it. But, I clearly do and I think about it often. I often wondered what would make me just blurt out something like that. I was young and didn't know how to express what I was thinking in a way that didn't sound boorish or insensitive. And as we have all been warned at times, you can never take back your words, once said. I do feel bad about that. No, I'm not going to tell you what I said because those words are not the point of this post. The point is that years older and hopefully, wiser...I now understand why I would make such a comment. The truth is....I'm an introvert! I love my alone time. Too many social commitments send me into a tizzy and I have to recharge by retreating into myself for a few days. Now, don't get me wrong....I love spending time with my family and friends. And y'all know as well as anybody how much I love a good adventure. I'm just wired a little differently than most. It took me a long time to realize this. And now that I know, I can better manage it. And now that you know, you'll understand my next statement.

I'm really in a state of bliss right now. NOTHING on my calendar! Well, there is just one more thing.....but, it will be fun.

And to boot, it's fall! It's time for relaxation and rejuvenation! The spring is a time of renewal and new growth and hope for the year. Summer is a hot mess of activities. All good for memory making and I've loved every minute of it. But, laws-o-mercy! A girl needs some downtime.

My racing for the year is over, pretty much....or at least for the races I registered for. There may be a 5K here or there that I'll do, but I'll run them on the spur of the moment, you know....when the notion hits. The weather is gorgeous. It's cooler and practically no humidity. Sitting on the porch at the beach or the lake has never felt better. You can't beat a cup of coffee, a cool breeze and a rocking chair. Now is the time of the year I begin reflecting back over the course of the year.....checking that list of goals and whether or not I met them. I, also, reflect back on the adventures and good times Cliff and I shared with our family and friends. I don't know what it is about this time of year that elicits that in me. Maybe it's the, soon to be, Thanksgiving season. Most likely. I do love Thanksgiving.

Well, I can see you scratching your heads and wondering, what in the world..... Had you going there for a moment, didn't I? You thought I was going to go all insightful and binge the conscience, didn't you?

Ha!  Ummm, no!

As my daddy (otherwise known as Confucius) used to say, "Don't tell all your business".

And on that note.....me and my inner voice are going to go rest, relax and rejuvenate.

Peace Out,
Laurie

12 comments:

  1. I have got more introverted as I have got older. I used to like nothing more than a calender full of activity but now I prefer very little on that calender!

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    1. I certainly agree with you! Thanks for stopping by.

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  2. A wonderful post, Laurie. I have to say that I like my alone time, too. It gives me time to recharge and reflect on where I have been and where I am going. I seldom have nothing on my calendar so relish it when that happens.

    My father's saying was always- A wise man keeps his own counsel. Love that and have come to understand what it means over the years. Wish I had learned it sooner (for several reasons). xo Diana

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    1. Thanks Diana, I am a planner and recharging and reflection are necessary to be able to plan effectively. Not only that, but realizing what makes you tick is better for everyone. Love your father's saying, too. Talk soon!

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  3. Oh how wonderful to have NOTHING on your calendar!!! I must admit that since no longer being able to work I have that on my calendar quite often and actually have come to almost resent having to do something in the big bad outside world!!! I know, I know, sounds like I'm a terrible person but you see I too am an introvert and hold my "Me" time as sacred!!!
    Hugs,
    Beth P

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  4. You are a gal after my heart! YOU say "HA"! just like I do!! (When I first saw LOL on the computer, I thought someone was just lolling around and didn't know how to spell!)
    You have nothing on your calendar, sounds heavenly to me!
    And you know, everyone has said and done things that we might regret, but hey, that is what FORGIVENESS is all about isn't it? Everyone will soon know the lesson of forgiveness from our hero, Louis Zamperini soon, won' they?
    Blessings to you! x

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    1. Thank you so much Kay. I'm so glad to hear from you. Yes, I am very happy to have an empty calendar for the time being. I'm relishing in it, because I know all too soon, it will be full again. But that's what keeps us going, right? Yes, Forgiveness is a big deal and I can't wait to see Louis' life on the big screen. I'll be there the day it comes out. And I'll know you will be doing the same. Happy to meet you!

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  5. If we admit it, Laura, we all have a thing or two we would like to be able to take back. I know I do, more than one stupid and thoughtless thing that I wish I could erase and rewrite, especially if it caused pain or hurt to someone else. Thank Goodness that for me a little wisdom, a softer heart, more understanding, sympathy and even a little tolerance has come along with the aches and pains of aging! We all need a little down time to rest, relax and reflect. I'm glad for you that you are enjoying some!

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  6. I agree with you Laurie...this time of year I get more plans underway than I do on Jan. 1st! I think it's the last hooray before the snow flies..atleast in my neck of the woods! I too enjoy peace and quiet and alone time. (hard to do with my work, family, church and other commitments!)

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  7. I don't have too many comments in my life that I regret, but the ones I do regret are doozies!

    I was just thinking today that it was time to reflect on the past year and start setting goals for next year.

    I totally understand about "me" time. I am a total extrovert - I was a middle school activities director for over 20 years. But when I am off, I am content to be quiet at home refreshing my batteries. Now that I am retired, I love having so much "me" time. Volleyball season ends tomorrow and as much as I love coaching, I am glad that I no longer have practice and games on my schedule.

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  8. Hey Girlfriend, hope all is well with you?! I kind of lost track of a lot of people this year what with not blogging much at all. I was thinking about you and when I got over here to say Hi I see you haven't blogged much either. There is a new "Grow Your Blog" party coming up at Vicki's again this year and I figured I would participate since I lost so many of my followers this year in the hopes of finding some of them again. I've changed my blog back to Blogger and given her a brand new name to usher in my 60th birthday, gasp! Anyway, hope your are well and to hear from you sometime when you feel moved to do so :D Happiest of Holidays my sweet blogging sister,
    Beth P
    (http://elisabetpollock[dot]blogspot[dot]com)

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    1. Hey Beth. Thanks for stopping by. You're right, I haven't blogged much lately. This has been an extremely busy year for me. Hopefully, things will settle down and I can get back to blogging. I don't think I'm participating in Vicki's blog party this time. Although, I do love all the friends I've made as a result. I'm going to stop by your new blog. I wish you all the best with it and hope you find those followers. Merry Christmas!

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